Why Do Women Play Mind Games With Men?

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When I first walked in I seen her to my left by the registers straightening out the items on display. Frankly, I'm sick of getting stonewalled with everything I try. He will purposely ignore you or make you wait for his call or text.

We desire a person who is difficult to attract more than a person who can be effortlessly seduced. Mind Games: Do They Really Work? These behaviors become part of flirting, and are learned by watching our friends and family, TV, movies, and by reading books. She loves to play the cat and mouse game with you.

Why Do Women Play Mind Games With Men?

I empathized with John because I was in a similar position many years ago… way before I founded the Baltimore Seduction Lair SIBG. Mind games come part and parcel with seduction! The sad fact is that women play mind games all the time when they want to get men to do things that they want or need. Often, they make men jump through hoops just to feel validated and powerful. Fortunately in some cases, they use methods that are piss easy to spot: like playing hard-to-get or just blatantly using you. These should be treated as red flags that you should always try to spot. Want to find out what the most common female mind games are and how you can beat them with ease? This SIBG guide, however, is different. It has concrete, step-by-step action steps for you to take in order to improve your skills. To download the Action Checklist, click on this link below. Learn the foundations of Mind Control in this online Masterclass by Derek Rake, the founder of Shogun Method possibly the best known Mind Control seduction system on the planet. Enter your email address here — Seriously, watch the Masterclass. Have you wondered why? She will intentionally try to make you jealous because she knows that you will end up trying harder to impress her when you do so. This is one of the reasons why she might start playing hard-to-get as well. Really fucked up if you think about it, right? Keep a poker face, and stay stoic all the time. Beat her at her own game by being indifferent. The Game of Disrespect Every couple will go through a time where disrespect is the main problem. Indeed, this is one of the biggest sticking points of newbies who just joined the Baltimore Lair. You see, when a relationship starts, everything is hunky dory. Enjoy that while it lasts! However, every relationship will soon reach a stage where the woman would want to prove that she has the upper hand. This is the point where there will be a tussle for in the relationship. And when this happens, women want to prove that they still have the upper hand in the relationship. Simple, really — it would be to let her know that you value self-respect more than anything else. Yes, this means that she becomes secondary to your own self-respect. And once you open her eyes to this simple fact, she is sure to drop the game and run back into your arms again. Because then she will be afraid to lose you but only if you play your cards right. Heck, you should even scare her a little bit if you can. Remember: women only play these games because they are craving attention. If you stop giving them attention, the mind games will stop. Well, who fucking cares? Turning The Tables: Playing Mind Games On Her Think about it: why not let a woman have a taste of her own medicine? In fact, we have found that for guys who are stuck in the dreaded friend zone, playing mind games is the surest way to get out, bar none. The Ultimate Cure-All Through our experience of coaching men in the Baltimore Lair more the last 16 years, we have come to know this: a potent combination of Jealousy and Disrespect usually marks the end of the seducer. Problems like women mind games are best nipped in the bud. And if you do things correctly, she will completely transform into a docile little kitten yearning for your control and domination. Indeed, once you mastered this technique you will be able to know exactly what and how a woman thinks — and this is tremendous advantage to any seducer. So, if you do not agree to this condition our lawyers have asked us to put up this disclaimer , then do not click on this link below — Finally remember: YOU GOTTA FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE! Only when I came to the realization that women will LOVE me more if I start behaving like a real MAN that I became truly desirable. Now I flip the tables around and play mind games on women instead… loving every single minute. If she wants commitment then she should show you she deserves it. If she keeps getting humiliating and abussive then get rid of her BUT give her a good taste of her own medicine before you do. She is a lost cause but you should not let anyone use you like a doormat. Revenge is dish best served cold. Easy way is just to spread the word around about her. Am married to my wife and its almost a year now. I initially decided to leave my personal bank account and do most deposit into hers showing transparency. From the time we started our relationship my wife has never been open wit her salary. Instead she ll only do her house obligations and mostly want to know how much making because I do own my own computer business. However, due to her secrecy about money, I decided also to stop talking about cash and manage my own financial issues. Lastly, she likes going through my phone checking my conversations with legion of clients to the extent of phoning and fighting with some of them. Her siblings too insults me and disrespect me. That was three months ago. Then I fought back her mind games using Fractionation, and she has surrendered her dominance to me. You stop playing them or you never play them in the first place! Sometimes, the best way to win is to not play the game at all. I refuse to play mind games, and it pisses me off whenever a girl does them! To my fellow men: tell her to kick rocks whenever she starts messing with your head. Playing mind games is a complete waste of time! Many of you suggested not to play that kind of game. The problem is I find it extremely infuriating is that they still get away with it feeling better about themselves knowing they will continue getting attentions from guys whom they like. There are so many whores out there. Letting her know about her mistakes, insult her, and leave her. That may sound harsh but surely will get your message across. NEVER EVER TRUST ANY WOMAN IF YOU ARE A MAN AND THE OPPOSITE GOES FOR THE GIRLS, GALS, WOMEN AS WELL. Validate yourself instead of seeking approval from others. A gentleman does not get walked over. Move on and dont bite the bait when she tries to make you feel sorry for her or when she tells you how much she misses you. The old behaviour will come back and this time she might even go for the kill by cheating on you because you hurt her ego by standing up for yourself. It was fun while it lasted. Focus your attention on something abstract and rewarding. In other words, dont focus on women all that much. A wise man once told me if you spend your life trying to make people like you and bend them to your will you will only find failure because human beings will always let you down — it is part of our nature. Instead dedicate your time and energy to something abstract like art or philosophy or religion, whatever, these things wont let you down because that is their nature. As soon as you married a woman all your efforts go down the drain. How do I know? Alpha male, married late in life and after 7 years of marriage she destroyed a family and left the kids with me. Nothing wrong with long term commitments, just do not marry them the law is on their side and pretty much everything else, even if they are cheating whores. Peace, Rob I am so glad that I never married. What I have is my own. Just slept with a very hot babe today. She was great, but whatever. And the truth is, even if a woman grows as fat as swine, they can still and do still cheat, because there is always some pathetic loser who will do her. Face it, 85% of women look better with their clothing on, yet someone or other is sleeping with many of these women regardless of how repulsive they look. All of that said, when I was a young guy, women treated me with a great deal of respect. From what I see today, women act like trash and try to see how much crap you will take off of them. I think it has plenty to do with our drugged out, alcoholic, mentally deranged society, which is spitting out mini-me´s of diseased parents… also, the whole neg gaming… it is trash culture of narcissism, which is devil worship. Dude, this one chick was playing some serious mind control games from the beginning, she when I finally caught on, and stood up to her, she blocked me on Facebook. I really escalated this chick to the point she was sending me nude pics and videos of herself. I gave her my number and told her to call me. She kept telling me she would call me, but never did. So I told her if she really wanted to meet up, come to my house. She never replied for a couple of days. I have to say that the article above kind of made me shudder. If a woman does want control or to dominate a relationship, run as fast as you can. I will admit this — a real woman truly wishes to submit to a man, BUT that man MUST be worthy to submit to. In a relationship and man and woman should be equal, not one better or over the other. BTW, I just happened to land on this page. This will get you a resented woman who will escalate the mindgames to an annoying, yet addictive level. If it´s any use to you. They want your attention, and they want security. This works biologically in your favor. Men are not very fond of giving women the security that they will be there commitment, ew! Guys tend to say they don´t like being played around by women, yet they respond to manipulative women so well, while ignoring women who are just as hot, just not as interested on playing with your mind. Many guys don´t even notice they do it, but you need to start putting your money where your mouth is. You don´t like being used? But anyway, too much intro. Women´s libido decreases when they don´t feel safe around you emotionally safe, that is I´m not telling you to lie to her, that is pretty much the mother of all mindgames Guys play games on girls all the time, by the time you know her, she most likely already heard whatever you have to say, and it was a lie before, you are relying on how much she wants it to be true for her to believe you, you don´t want to have to depend on how much she likes you before you even show her the first thing about you. You are really depending on whether she likes what she sees or not. She es likely to play dumb, so that you don´t feel exposed on your lame line, but she will still think it´s lame. If you get to take her home, it was all based on anything, but your moves. But anyway, back to the two games you present which by the way, are bad signs, both of them are immature, even for women who play games The jealousy game: This is an insecure woman´s card for attention. If she is complimenting another guy in front of you, first off, discard honesty If she´s talking about her gay friend, or her cousin, this is not a mindgame, she´s just describing qualities she enjoys being around, if you have them, show her, if you don´t, get them, if you can´t, ignore the statement altogether. If she is talking about a single friend and mentioning how great he is, this is a terrible sign of insecurity. A secure lady is more likely to get the guy to call her while she´s with you, or get a guy to send her flowers, or buy her a gift. If her only weapon is talking about how great some other dude is, this is low. I suggest you back off, but if you really like her, don´t ignore her. I´m here to talk about how great her name here is! If she does it often, there´s a deeper confidence problem. The Game of Disrespect. This is also a bad one, what kind of girls do you date?! This is completely unacceptable. If she puts you down, that relationship will never work. This rarely ever is about having the upper hand in the relationship. This is not a good relationship to have. Even if she is out of your league, it´s not worth it. A woman who disrespects you is not playing a game. She really doesn´t respect you. If you make her think she can lose you, and she tries to get you back, this doesn´t necessarily means she respects you, it just means she still wants you to want her. Just like before, test the water before you go for a solution. Is she really disrespecting you, is she just reacting to something you did that she considered disrespectful even if you don´t think it is bad at all, if one action from you triggers her disrespect, this is not something she does to you, it´s something you´re both doing to each other, and even though it´s just as unhealthy, it´s not a mind game. If it is a mindgame, you´re dealing with a toxic kind of woman. If you insist, it´s not as simple. More than three times of going after you, but disrespecting you again mean she doesn´t really like you that much, she thinks she´s out of your leage, but she likes having you around to boost her ego. If you like her too much to just go, then, next time you´re with her, while the conversation is good, say you need to go. Be less available, but always make sure to leave at a good moment in the conversation, leave her wanting more all the time, and be less available. When she disrespects you, don´t get angry, don´t tell her anything about it, just take it lightly. Everytime you see her, make sure you leave before she wants you to. This will leave her wanting you everytime, and if you are patient, she will begin respecting you, once she notices you´re not all about her, but without the resentment. You just have a whole life she´s not a part of. The time will come when she won´t know how to answer, and she might try to stop. Be patient, this may be the result of years of raising. Get away from those girls. They might convince you that they are super nice, and that they didn´t mean to disrespect you, but you just hurt her so much when you insert anything you did here. Even if it sounded untrue, child abuse is such a serious thing, you wouldn´t risk asking too much, right? Maybe, accept one tragedy as good. If she gives you too many too soon, she is either too troubled for you to handle, or just lying about things people shouldn´t lie about. I think this is already a bit too long. I´ll close like I began. Some play them and get a bunch of great guys falling over them. Stop falling for it, and the girls will stop playing them. I have encountered those girls who think they are above most men. And who keep nice guy around to play with an get that ego boost. There are too many of you, it is old, tiring and getting played out…. Using anyone for your your pleasure like a dog who is bored of his toys? You should be ashamed of yourselves! You uncaring, selfish, Toxic, ice queens! You will be old and alone. Honesty is soooo much easier. Women, Stop the mind games. There is NO USE in the mind games, period. I try not to. It was like a movie that I could relate with many cases to every single line you wrote. This was the most horrible one from many she shared and every time in our conversations she passes by any of these horrible tragedies that happened in her life like she is window shopping at a mall. I thought she needed attention and I felt pity for her, now she tries to act like what ever I do insults her but she forgives me because she is a very understanding and nice person. I am really confused, I swear I an very gentle and read a lot about women, I watch my behavior but there is always something that hurts her, and I end up apologizing and explaining that I really did not mean to express anything mean thru what I said to her. Thanks Again I have a little situation and maybe you can help me figure this one out. You may or may not have heard of the chain supermarket ALDI. However, they opened a location in the town next to mine. I usually shop there on Tuesdays or Wednesdays because I have those nights off work overnighter. About a month ago while in ALDI I noticed the manger I mentioned was stocking some items on the shelves at the end of an aisle as I was just about to pass her up. She look back at me over her left shoulder and leaned over to show her assests, and it was easy to tell it was intentional. I go on about my shopping, playing it cool because they say women kind of get turned off by a guy who runs to them too quickly making them look desperate and needy. Shortly after this encounter I went to checkout my items out and she came out of the office, exchanged a few words with the cashier I was on line with then passed me to my right and began singing, lightly but enough for me to hear. Again, I wanted to play it cool and not look desperate. I went again the following Wednesday and her attitude was much different. When I first walked in I seen her to my left by the registers straightening out the items on display. Very quickly after she noticed me I seen her walking to the stock room and she stayed there for maybe 6,7 minutes or so. A few minutes later, she was at the chicken section as I came around the end of the aisle and she was wiping down one of the shelves, glanced at me from her right eye, put the rag down, turned walked away and went into the office. So I go in again yesterday and the same thing. I have a particular preference in what I look for in a woman with certain characteristics, and they are: 1. Slight olive tone to her complexion. Slender, as approximately the same to me. Nails done that extend slightly beyond her fingertips, polished red. But when I locked my eyes on her, I took notice that she fits the characteristics to a perfect T. Any advice you can give, I would greatly appreciate your time if you respond back. What should you do when a girl you have been dating for 5 months asks if you feel comfortable with her inviting a guy she met at school over to study at her place? I feel like her communication skills are lacking. The problem escalated and I ended up yelling at her and she got scared. I just want to point out that these kind of things are actually commonly used by male professors in universities towards first year young female students. There is really not a lot of people that would accept to use manipulation WHILE refusing to hurt women. It goes altogether and everybody knows it. The more you do it, the better you become at it, the less you care about other people feelings, and the more you start to actually enjoy inflicting pain to others. Thats what domination, total control and ENSLAVEMENT are about. When you need to accuse women of what you are actually doing to justify what you do and want, it is not simply amoral; it is pathetic. I know this site applies to men dating women, however, I happened to find this site in the google search zone. There is so much truth to the info that is posted on this website. People play so many mind games nowadays that it is deadly. It has nearly ruined my life as well as other people who have been negatively affected by the power of mind games. Many of the games involved a distorted view of how to live your life through deadly competitions. Competitions that involved comparing people, degrading people, preventing people from having access to money, and bullying. It was so terrible that I experienced repeated incidents of cruel behaviors that attacked my character and others who I cared about deeply. The email that I sent was a response to a job that I was interested in working but was unable to start due to circumstances. The response was an attack relating to my job status, ability to perform duties and demeaning words that I was shocked to read. I had realized that I was also stuck in other mind games that my female friends had played with me because they were jealous of the relationships that I had with my ex-boyfriends and were doing bad things to me behind my back to knock me down and out of the competitions that they started. It turned into a really ugly situation when I discovered who was involved. I have been trapped in their games for 5 years and have suffered greatly. Particularly when it involves jealousy mind games that can spark a fuse and set people in rage. I think people who do that are EVIL. They are craving more than attention. They just want to start drama. This is a good forum to read about issues that we face in our daily lives and how to find ways to prevent it and stop it. I loved this article. I could see some of my own behaviours. I have had some boyfriendss point out that I play mind games but others would never say that. Deep culturally driven psychologically ingrained issues aside, power dynamics come down to the two people involved and what they trigger in each other. I think I am mostly a well rounded woman but I have dated men who resented my lack of emotional expression.. Two sides to a coin friends. This is why bitches and assholes will always get laid more often than nice guys and nice girls. However, instead of complaining about these immature whores, we should do like the article said and ignore them completely. I just recently stopped dealing with a women who was all about games. She tried to change the subject when she was in the wrong a lot. The cycle will never end if you except it. Well said George Dillard. You hit the nail on the head. I just did the same recently with a women I liked. She use to always changed the subject when she was wrong…. Tried to make me jealous which I never pay attention. And finally when I stood firm and told her what she is all about and showing her that I respect myself and value myself, she blocked me on social media like Facebook, Whatsapp, my mobile number, etc. So now I completely ignore her without sinking to her level and trying to move on, but not so fast. Now she is in contact with my friends via searching them on Facebook trying to contact me through them rather contacting me directly. It hurts a little bit as I truly liked her and the whole situation is still on my mind, but hey, as they say, what does not kill you makes you stronger. What is obvious to me is the irony, hypocrisy and contempt of the mind games. The gamer ASSUMES that it is a one-way street. The gamer wants you to show your worth and worthiness. They have to show their worth, too. Not to mention: you can easily fight back with mind games — like Fractionation! The Seduction Initiatives S. I group is an invite-only networking group for men with the aim of improving the love and relationship skills of its members and contributing to the society as a whole. The SIBG is SI's Baltimore chapter founded in March 2001, based out of Calvin Street, and is administered by Matthew Ganz. I'll help you as much as I can. So, what exactly happened? Tell us your story. I don't know how to move on. Please tell me so that I can tell my therapist how to... Will try and report back soon!! Read the guide above - it should get you started. { My lawyer had me write this for you: You're a jerk. I am my own lawyer, maybe. On a more serious note: you should ask... How do I learn this? I mean this seems like a... The gamer ASSUMES that it is a one-way street. I'll check it out. Where's the link though? Frankly, I'm sick of getting stonewalled with everything I try. And even playing badly you'll win sometimes, because... Perhaps he wants to stick in your mind so that you've only got eyes for him? If she isn't interested and you keep using the same strategy, she will just end up hating you. You hit the nail on the head. I just did the same recently with a women I liked.

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